I think most of the guys that are known as "shy" with the girls the only reason that they don't aproach is the FEAR OF THE REFUSE. For example if you go in a club and aproach a girl, if it dosn't work what would you do? Would you go to another girls, or just sit and "cry" about that? I heard that most of the PU artists suggest you that if a girl refuse you, that should motivate you? Me, personally, never had the feeling of the refuse ('cause I didn't aproach a lot) but I think I wouldn't fill bad about it. But I really don't know what would I do after that? Do you guys have any idea?:wave:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if a girl refuses you, does it motivate ?
- Thread starter macking
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol think like this . If girls let everyone to talk to them they would be bored because everyone would BS (bullsh!t) them all night .
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .
Its fun.
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .Its fun
.Adopt the mindset of, 'any girl who rejects is making a big mistake'.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.