I think most of the guys that are known as "shy" with the girls the only reason that they don't aproach is the FEAR OF THE REFUSE. For example if you go in a club and aproach a girl, if it dosn't work what would you do? Would you go to another girls, or just sit and "cry" about that? I heard that most of the PU artists suggest you that if a girl refuse you, that should motivate you? Me, personally, never had the feeling of the refuse ('cause I didn't aproach a lot) but I think I wouldn't fill bad about it. But I really don't know what would I do after that? Do you guys have any idea?:wave:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if a girl refuses you, does it motivate ?
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- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol think like this . If girls let everyone to talk to them they would be bored because everyone would BS (bullsh!t) them all night .
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .
Its fun.
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .Its fun
.Adopt the mindset of, 'any girl who rejects is making a big mistake'.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.