I think most of the guys that are known as "shy" with the girls the only reason that they don't aproach is the FEAR OF THE REFUSE. For example if you go in a club and aproach a girl, if it dosn't work what would you do? Would you go to another girls, or just sit and "cry" about that? I heard that most of the PU artists suggest you that if a girl refuse you, that should motivate you? Me, personally, never had the feeling of the refuse ('cause I didn't aproach a lot) but I think I wouldn't fill bad about it. But I really don't know what would I do after that? Do you guys have any idea?:wave:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
if a girl refuses you, does it motivate ?
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol think like this . If girls let everyone to talk to them they would be bored because everyone would BS (bullsh!t) them all night .
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .
Its fun.
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .Its fun
.Adopt the mindset of, 'any girl who rejects is making a big mistake'.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.