I think most of the guys that are known as "shy" with the girls the only reason that they don't aproach is the FEAR OF THE REFUSE. For example if you go in a club and aproach a girl, if it dosn't work what would you do? Would you go to another girls, or just sit and "cry" about that? I heard that most of the PU artists suggest you that if a girl refuse you, that should motivate you? Me, personally, never had the feeling of the refuse ('cause I didn't aproach a lot) but I think I wouldn't fill bad about it. But I really don't know what would I do after that? Do you guys have any idea?:wave:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
if a girl refuses you, does it motivate ?
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
Lol think like this . If girls let everyone to talk to them they would be bored because everyone would BS (bullsh!t) them all night .
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .
Its fun.
Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .
And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .
In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE
, say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set .Its fun
.Adopt the mindset of, 'any girl who rejects is making a big mistake'.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.
A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.