"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have been seeing an 18 year old I met at a model agency launch, have kissed closed and been in contact. Got in contact in the weekend but haven't had a reply from her in two days. Thinking if she is really interested, she will make the effort to get in touch. Until then, I should just get on with my life. Agreed?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ugh stop playing the games...

If you're interested why don't you take control and do something? Unless they are aggressive, girls will never initiate.
 
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Sick again is spot on.

Girls don't usually initiate contact and if they are do they are usually rare.

You like this girl and you feel she likes you, so why not go in for the kill? This time baby, you'll be bulletproof.

You just have to man up and get with this girl.
 
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I have already made the first moves regarding contact and taking things further, my point is that I have made contact and she has yet to reply. I am thinking instead of chasing her and coming off as needy, I should just wait for her to contact me back?
 
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By pursuing a woman, you won't come across as needy. Pursuing a girl because you fancy her doesn't make you needy at all, where did you get this notion from?

You only become needy when you hear yourself saying "I need this woman" or relying on her to get in contact with you because you are too apathetic/shy/wimpy to take up the reigns and drive forth to the result that you desire (not need).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
 
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trent81 said:
You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
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American women are bit slutty aren't they?
 
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