"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a girl is interested, will she make the effort?

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Have been seeing an 18 year old I met at a model agency launch, have kissed closed and been in contact. Got in contact in the weekend but haven't had a reply from her in two days. Thinking if she is really interested, she will make the effort to get in touch. Until then, I should just get on with my life. Agreed?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ugh stop playing the games...

If you're interested why don't you take control and do something? Unless they are aggressive, girls will never initiate.
 
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Sick again is spot on.

Girls don't usually initiate contact and if they are do they are usually rare.

You like this girl and you feel she likes you, so why not go in for the kill? This time baby, you'll be bulletproof.

You just have to man up and get with this girl.
 
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I have already made the first moves regarding contact and taking things further, my point is that I have made contact and she has yet to reply. I am thinking instead of chasing her and coming off as needy, I should just wait for her to contact me back?
 
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By pursuing a woman, you won't come across as needy. Pursuing a girl because you fancy her doesn't make you needy at all, where did you get this notion from?

You only become needy when you hear yourself saying "I need this woman" or relying on her to get in contact with you because you are too apathetic/shy/wimpy to take up the reigns and drive forth to the result that you desire (not need).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
 
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trent81 said:
You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
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American women are bit slutty aren't they?
 
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