"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If a girl is interested, will she make the effort?

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ManUnited01

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Have been seeing an 18 year old I met at a model agency launch, have kissed closed and been in contact. Got in contact in the weekend but haven't had a reply from her in two days. Thinking if she is really interested, she will make the effort to get in touch. Until then, I should just get on with my life. Agreed?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ugh stop playing the games...

If you're interested why don't you take control and do something? Unless they are aggressive, girls will never initiate.
 
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Sick again is spot on.

Girls don't usually initiate contact and if they are do they are usually rare.

You like this girl and you feel she likes you, so why not go in for the kill? This time baby, you'll be bulletproof.

You just have to man up and get with this girl.
 
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I have already made the first moves regarding contact and taking things further, my point is that I have made contact and she has yet to reply. I am thinking instead of chasing her and coming off as needy, I should just wait for her to contact me back?
 
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By pursuing a woman, you won't come across as needy. Pursuing a girl because you fancy her doesn't make you needy at all, where did you get this notion from?

You only become needy when you hear yourself saying "I need this woman" or relying on her to get in contact with you because you are too apathetic/shy/wimpy to take up the reigns and drive forth to the result that you desire (not need).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
 
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trent81 said:
You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
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American women are bit slutty aren't they?
 
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