"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If a girl is interested, will she make the effort?

ManUnited01

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Have been seeing an 18 year old I met at a model agency launch, have kissed closed and been in contact. Got in contact in the weekend but haven't had a reply from her in two days. Thinking if she is really interested, she will make the effort to get in touch. Until then, I should just get on with my life. Agreed?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SickAgain

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Ugh stop playing the games...

If you're interested why don't you take control and do something? Unless they are aggressive, girls will never initiate.
 
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Sick again is spot on.

Girls don't usually initiate contact and if they are do they are usually rare.

You like this girl and you feel she likes you, so why not go in for the kill? This time baby, you'll be bulletproof.

You just have to man up and get with this girl.
 

ManUnited01

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I have already made the first moves regarding contact and taking things further, my point is that I have made contact and she has yet to reply. I am thinking instead of chasing her and coming off as needy, I should just wait for her to contact me back?
 
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By pursuing a woman, you won't come across as needy. Pursuing a girl because you fancy her doesn't make you needy at all, where did you get this notion from?

You only become needy when you hear yourself saying "I need this woman" or relying on her to get in contact with you because you are too apathetic/shy/wimpy to take up the reigns and drive forth to the result that you desire (not need).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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trent81

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You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
 
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trent81 said:
You are one of 27 to 33 guys she has. If she feels like it, on Tuesday you will get a call.
American women are bit slutty aren't they?
 
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