Hey i'm hanging out with this chic on Saturday, and she has expressed her interest in me and such and like im chillen at her house. Like theres not gonna be much to do what do I do? What fun activities do yall suggest? What do i say do act wear watch haha
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ideas please, help a dude out.
- Thread starter Bawb14
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Johnny Wolf
Don Juan
Smoke hookah
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
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Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
