Hey i'm hanging out with this chic on Saturday, and she has expressed her interest in me and such and like im chillen at her house. Like theres not gonna be much to do what do I do? What fun activities do yall suggest? What do i say do act wear watch haha
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ideas please, help a dude out.
- Thread starter Bawb14
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Johnny Wolf
Don Juan
Smoke hookah
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
