Hey i'm hanging out with this chic on Saturday, and she has expressed her interest in me and such and like im chillen at her house. Like theres not gonna be much to do what do I do? What fun activities do yall suggest? What do i say do act wear watch haha
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ideas please, help a dude out.
- Thread starter Bawb14
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Johnny Wolf
Don Juan
Smoke hookah
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
