Hey i'm hanging out with this chic on Saturday, and she has expressed her interest in me and such and like im chillen at her house. Like theres not gonna be much to do what do I do? What fun activities do yall suggest? What do i say do act wear watch haha
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ideas please, help a dude out.
- Thread starter Bawb14
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Johnny Wolf
Don Juan
Smoke hookah
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
Rockband
Guitar Hero
Mario Kart
Look at pictures together
Take new pictures together or of each other
Dress up in your own halloween costumes
Cook together
Make your own pizza from scratch
Play with your pets
Walk your dog if you have one
Cut out stuff you want from magazines and glue them on a vision board
Give each other massages
Have Sex
=)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
