"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'd pork Spitzer's wife...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
edger
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Wow, you know your sh*t.ChrizZ said:
Rollo Tomassi
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Rollo Tomassi
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DrD77DrD77 said:
Age:18
There's your reason. Heh,..
Now, you have to figure Spitzer knows his own reputation. Family man, devoted husband, father, etc., but also hard ass district attorney, known for putting away other prostitution rings too. At what point does the need for a hot piece of ass override being conscious of that? The guy's not dumb, he has to know his own reputation as well as the enemies a man like him must make to be a DA and a Governor. So what is this guy not getting?
I'm sure there's going to be the morality crew that'll chime in, but regardless, there had to be a point where he thought "I know I'm the last person in the world who should be considering a $10 hooker much less an $80K hooker, and I know my entire life would be over if it ever became public that I did one, and my wife's not all that bad to look at, but damn, she's frigid like a Wisconsin February in the sack and this 22 y.o. hottie can really turn it out, ah,..WTF."
spider_007
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You have VERY low standards. No wonder you have problems finding HOT young women.edger said:
Spitzer’s Wife RECENT Photo
http://blog.nj.com/fashiontoday/2008/03/large_clothes1.jpg
Spitzer’s Hooker (alleged) Photos
http://images.salon.com/tech/machinist/blog/2008/03/12/spitzer_myspace/story.jpg
http://www.streetinsider.com/images/news/3454683/resize_l_120c40421e6c13ad692f4f2a8643a213.jpg
No offense...but there is a HUGE difference between the 22 year old and that middle aged woman.
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I understand Pfizer has a pill to help you with that. Ask Bob Dole about it, apparently it let him get excited about HIS wife and if it did that it's better than LSD.edger said:
Sexy is as sexy does. I bet she was worth every penny for what she did, and what she didn't do (make a scene) for him. Money has different value to people of different incomes. Some people find the $250K Bentley to be a real bargain in automobiles.Rollo Tomassi said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
edger
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Again, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" in this case with me. That picture I posted of her, I think she looks hot in it.Latinoman said:
edger
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Hahaha.bigjohnson said:
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Married guys get prostitutes for the same reason that people with cars rent cars. Maybe you couldn't take your car on your trip to another city. Maybe you're having some problems with your car. Or maybe you just happen to see the car in an ad and think, "Holy sh*t, I must take that car out for a spin."
Unless you have a really awesome penkitten car, in which case you obviously wouldn't rent any other cars.
Of course, some people are freaks and rent a car because their car at home won't put them in diapers and change them. But those people are total perverts.
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Unless you have a really awesome penkitten car, in which case you obviously wouldn't rent any other cars.
Of course, some people are freaks and rent a car because their car at home won't put them in diapers and change them. But those people are total perverts.
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Bible_Belt
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There are lots of hooker blogs on the net. Here is one:
http://www.nyhotties.com/ link is nsfw
I used to read it years ago, before it had all the escort ads. afaik, it is a genuine blog. She very rarely talks about sex; mostly it is the oddness of her clients and her upscale, high-fashion life in nyc.
http://www.nyhotties.com/ link is nsfw
I used to read it years ago, before it had all the escort ads. afaik, it is a genuine blog. She very rarely talks about sex; mostly it is the oddness of her clients and her upscale, high-fashion life in nyc.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.