You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Outstanding, looks like I won't be having any comptetition.MidnightCity said:i dont find either of them remotely attractive.
Kaley Cuoco/Penny? She has a boob job.Fatal Jay said:The chick that be in the commercials with William Shatner, I would gladly take though
she is the same chick that is on the big bang tv show.
Damn, judgemental much? I've always said I like message boards, that's one reason I'm here. I've probably visited the message board of just about every movie or TV show I've ever seen.MidnightCity said:Done
Brother, there is a message board for everything.MidnightCity said:not being judgemental. i just found it hilarious that there was a message board for the show. i enjoy that show when i catch it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But she's not really a redhead.backbreaker said:i would love to see that wendy's chick's feet. i bet they are very nice looking. redheads always have the best looking feet it's like genetic or some ****.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol, Des I know you're kidding, as is BB. But unfortunately, I have learned not to underestimate the stupidity of some of the people on this forum. So for their benefit I will explain:Desdinova said:Since I don't have cable, I had to do a Google search for the Wendy's chick. WTF is wrong with you???
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I would agree with that, in fact that is exactly how I would rate them. I just have a thing about redheads, even fake ones if they pull it off right. Red hair is very colorful.Espi said:Flo in my opinion is a 6 on a good day.
Wendys chick is a 7 in my opinion.
I never found her that attractive, maybe she was too tall for my taste. I'd prefer Sheldon's assistant, Alex.Espi said:Hottest chick to ever appear on that show was the chick who portrayed Sheldon's sister.
Oh, you were serious? I thought you were making a joke, lol.Desdinova said:Okay, just looked up the younger Wendy's chick. She's pretty average in the face, but I certainly wouldn't kick her out of bed.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.