That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Outstanding, looks like I won't be having any comptetition.MidnightCity said:i dont find either of them remotely attractive.
Kaley Cuoco/Penny? She has a boob job.Fatal Jay said:The chick that be in the commercials with William Shatner, I would gladly take though
she is the same chick that is on the big bang tv show.
Damn, judgemental much? I've always said I like message boards, that's one reason I'm here. I've probably visited the message board of just about every movie or TV show I've ever seen.MidnightCity said:Done
Brother, there is a message board for everything.MidnightCity said:not being judgemental. i just found it hilarious that there was a message board for the show. i enjoy that show when i catch it.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
But she's not really a redhead.backbreaker said:i would love to see that wendy's chick's feet. i bet they are very nice looking. redheads always have the best looking feet it's like genetic or some ****.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol, Des I know you're kidding, as is BB. But unfortunately, I have learned not to underestimate the stupidity of some of the people on this forum. So for their benefit I will explain:Desdinova said:Since I don't have cable, I had to do a Google search for the Wendy's chick. WTF is wrong with you???
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I would agree with that, in fact that is exactly how I would rate them. I just have a thing about redheads, even fake ones if they pull it off right. Red hair is very colorful.Espi said:Flo in my opinion is a 6 on a good day.
Wendys chick is a 7 in my opinion.
I never found her that attractive, maybe she was too tall for my taste. I'd prefer Sheldon's assistant, Alex.Espi said:Hottest chick to ever appear on that show was the chick who portrayed Sheldon's sister.
Oh, you were serious? I thought you were making a joke, lol.Desdinova said:Okay, just looked up the younger Wendy's chick. She's pretty average in the face, but I certainly wouldn't kick her out of bed.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.