Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Outstanding, looks like I won't be having any comptetition.MidnightCity said:i dont find either of them remotely attractive.
Kaley Cuoco/Penny? She has a boob job.Fatal Jay said:The chick that be in the commercials with William Shatner, I would gladly take though
she is the same chick that is on the big bang tv show.
Damn, judgemental much? I've always said I like message boards, that's one reason I'm here. I've probably visited the message board of just about every movie or TV show I've ever seen.MidnightCity said:Done
Brother, there is a message board for everything.MidnightCity said:not being judgemental. i just found it hilarious that there was a message board for the show. i enjoy that show when i catch it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
But she's not really a redhead.backbreaker said:i would love to see that wendy's chick's feet. i bet they are very nice looking. redheads always have the best looking feet it's like genetic or some ****.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lol, Des I know you're kidding, as is BB. But unfortunately, I have learned not to underestimate the stupidity of some of the people on this forum. So for their benefit I will explain:Desdinova said:Since I don't have cable, I had to do a Google search for the Wendy's chick. WTF is wrong with you???
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I would agree with that, in fact that is exactly how I would rate them. I just have a thing about redheads, even fake ones if they pull it off right. Red hair is very colorful.Espi said:Flo in my opinion is a 6 on a good day.
Wendys chick is a 7 in my opinion.
I never found her that attractive, maybe she was too tall for my taste. I'd prefer Sheldon's assistant, Alex.Espi said:Hottest chick to ever appear on that show was the chick who portrayed Sheldon's sister.
Oh, you were serious? I thought you were making a joke, lol.Desdinova said:Okay, just looked up the younger Wendy's chick. She's pretty average in the face, but I certainly wouldn't kick her out of bed.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.