"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ice Breakers

jetboy

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I'm having trouble with breaking the ice. Can you guys help me out? Does same rules apply on breaking the ice if you're hot?

(Do you have to be more friendly to appear not so arrogant? Will being kinda shy work to get the girls to breakthe ice on you?) Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deadly_Assassin

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"hi"

I think this one works well if you have got eye contact going before you approach but there are times where you can just go up and say hi and you will do fine. Of course you have to have something else as well in your mind to say after you say hi. You dont wanna just go up to her, say Hi, and then just stand there thinking of saying something.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
The lint opener.

keep a piece of lint in your palm and walk up and say
as you brush your arm on her shoulder show her the
lint and say "how long has this been there?"

My classic opener.

"Hey! How are you?"
I wouldnt use the lint thing as an opener. It is intended as a "gimmic" or a lead to neg her. If you use it as an opener sub- consciencly she will think negitivly of you because it is somewhat negative and....first impression always counts.....


I usually walk up to a chick and say, "Hey, I dont normally do this...but I noticed your great style and wanted to introduce myself".......Opener: Done.............then you can use the lint gimmic and lead her to a neg

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