"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ice Breakers

jetboy

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I'm having trouble with breaking the ice. Can you guys help me out? Does same rules apply on breaking the ice if you're hot?

(Do you have to be more friendly to appear not so arrogant? Will being kinda shy work to get the girls to breakthe ice on you?) Thanks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deadly_Assassin

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"hi"

I think this one works well if you have got eye contact going before you approach but there are times where you can just go up and say hi and you will do fine. Of course you have to have something else as well in your mind to say after you say hi. You dont wanna just go up to her, say Hi, and then just stand there thinking of saying something.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
The lint opener.

keep a piece of lint in your palm and walk up and say
as you brush your arm on her shoulder show her the
lint and say "how long has this been there?"

My classic opener.

"Hey! How are you?"
I wouldnt use the lint thing as an opener. It is intended as a "gimmic" or a lead to neg her. If you use it as an opener sub- consciencly she will think negitivly of you because it is somewhat negative and....first impression always counts.....


I usually walk up to a chick and say, "Hey, I dont normally do this...but I noticed your great style and wanted to introduce myself".......Opener: Done.............then you can use the lint gimmic and lead her to a neg

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