"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ice Breakers

jetboy

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I'm having trouble with breaking the ice. Can you guys help me out? Does same rules apply on breaking the ice if you're hot?

(Do you have to be more friendly to appear not so arrogant? Will being kinda shy work to get the girls to breakthe ice on you?) Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deadly_Assassin

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"hi"

I think this one works well if you have got eye contact going before you approach but there are times where you can just go up and say hi and you will do fine. Of course you have to have something else as well in your mind to say after you say hi. You dont wanna just go up to her, say Hi, and then just stand there thinking of saying something.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
The lint opener.

keep a piece of lint in your palm and walk up and say
as you brush your arm on her shoulder show her the
lint and say "how long has this been there?"

My classic opener.

"Hey! How are you?"
I wouldnt use the lint thing as an opener. It is intended as a "gimmic" or a lead to neg her. If you use it as an opener sub- consciencly she will think negitivly of you because it is somewhat negative and....first impression always counts.....


I usually walk up to a chick and say, "Hey, I dont normally do this...but I noticed your great style and wanted to introduce myself".......Opener: Done.............then you can use the lint gimmic and lead her to a neg

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