"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ice Breakers

jetboy

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I'm having trouble with breaking the ice. Can you guys help me out? Does same rules apply on breaking the ice if you're hot?

(Do you have to be more friendly to appear not so arrogant? Will being kinda shy work to get the girls to breakthe ice on you?) Thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deadly_Assassin

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"hi"

I think this one works well if you have got eye contact going before you approach but there are times where you can just go up and say hi and you will do fine. Of course you have to have something else as well in your mind to say after you say hi. You dont wanna just go up to her, say Hi, and then just stand there thinking of saying something.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by Soniq_red
The lint opener.

keep a piece of lint in your palm and walk up and say
as you brush your arm on her shoulder show her the
lint and say "how long has this been there?"

My classic opener.

"Hey! How are you?"
I wouldnt use the lint thing as an opener. It is intended as a "gimmic" or a lead to neg her. If you use it as an opener sub- consciencly she will think negitivly of you because it is somewhat negative and....first impression always counts.....


I usually walk up to a chick and say, "Hey, I dont normally do this...but I noticed your great style and wanted to introduce myself".......Opener: Done.............then you can use the lint gimmic and lead her to a neg

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