"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would rather be a loser than a fool

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This probably will be different for a post but I will be totally honest. The fact that one has to "not be themselves" "not show to much feeling" " Act" according the the "plan", show beyond a shadow of a doubt that the male/female relationship is one of ultimate incompatibility. I consider myself somewhat deep. I understand keeping things interesting and coming up with new exciting approaches, but even sometimes traveling is fun but it is good to come home eventually, if you understand. I do not claim to have all the answers and I am not gay but women are not compatible. I guesss that is why so many "jerks" are created. Yes it sucks but then look at the condition of the world, marriages overall. Its broke. Just the facts.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good point. I am getting into a new relationship after a few years of marriage. It seems nothing has changed. Just not a player. That is not the quality of life I am looking for. I confess I do read and get some benefits from some of the stuff here. However, it is still a psych game unfortunately.
 
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Exactly. I am not a pessimist. I am realistic though. You basically have to live in a denial of your personhood to some degree to be don juan. Women are challenging to say it nicely.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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there is no personhood, you're whomever you want to be.

To me, what I "am" is merely a set of steps to get what I want. I don't care what I "am," I care what I want and I'm willing to "be" whatever allows me to most efficiently get what I want. My identity is not fixed.

I mean, if you break it way down, "you" are merely a stepping stone for genetic code to pass from the past to the future.
 
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