"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would rather be a loser than a fool

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This probably will be different for a post but I will be totally honest. The fact that one has to "not be themselves" "not show to much feeling" " Act" according the the "plan", show beyond a shadow of a doubt that the male/female relationship is one of ultimate incompatibility. I consider myself somewhat deep. I understand keeping things interesting and coming up with new exciting approaches, but even sometimes traveling is fun but it is good to come home eventually, if you understand. I do not claim to have all the answers and I am not gay but women are not compatible. I guesss that is why so many "jerks" are created. Yes it sucks but then look at the condition of the world, marriages overall. Its broke. Just the facts.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good point. I am getting into a new relationship after a few years of marriage. It seems nothing has changed. Just not a player. That is not the quality of life I am looking for. I confess I do read and get some benefits from some of the stuff here. However, it is still a psych game unfortunately.
 

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Exactly. I am not a pessimist. I am realistic though. You basically have to live in a denial of your personhood to some degree to be don juan. Women are challenging to say it nicely.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there is no personhood, you're whomever you want to be.

To me, what I "am" is merely a set of steps to get what I want. I don't care what I "am," I care what I want and I'm willing to "be" whatever allows me to most efficiently get what I want. My identity is not fixed.

I mean, if you break it way down, "you" are merely a stepping stone for genetic code to pass from the past to the future.
 
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