"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I wish prostitution was legal...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
do a searchOriginally posted by Eternal
Did I miss something while in college?
last i heard on the bham news was that in centerpoint (birmingham) they found a chinese nail place or massage place pimping girls out and got in trouble and had a big to do about it on the tv. they said it was legal to buy it and sell it but dont pimp your sister or you will go to jail. this was back in 1997.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
The other type of prositution is "legal" because prostitution is illegal in Clark County (Las Vegas). However running an escort service is legal in just about any part of the country. So what ends up happening is you page through the phone book and find "full service" escorts. When you call them and ask about sex they say the following statement verbatum "Of course prostitution is illegal in Clark County, but whatever happens between you and the girl off the books, we don't know about." So there you have it, they pretty much tell you that you can pay for sex but they've got a blind eye to any such transactions. I'm sure this happens in just about every major metropolitian city in America. In fact a lot of the strippers who go to the hotel rooms are nothing but prostitutes as well. I met a group of guys who were having a bachelor party and they asked the "stripper" to dance on the tables and show some TnA, you know stripper stuff. And she said to them "I don't really do that kind of thing, is there anything I can do with any of you one on one behind closed doors?"
So prostitution is pretty much legal in the vast majority of the country whethe you see it on the news or not. Its a shame because the actual legalized prostitution is so much safer for people who are going to pay for it. The girls are tested twice a month for STD's and if contracts one then her carrier is obviously over. So it's a definately a cleaner industry when regulated and the government really does enjoy the tax money it generates... right along with the gambling and 24 hour liquor service in NV.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I couldn't believe it, but here in the UK there are thousands of girls from asia and eastern europe shipped over and forced to work and get badly treated, some murdered. All run by organised crime.
How guys can go to these girls regularly, knowing they are in a living hell and turn a blind eye. Bad news.
A big industry here is lap dancing. Now these girls make a packet and the punters are real mugs. An arse in the face is about it and it ain't cheep.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I believe that prostitution should be legal as long as it's taxed, regulated, and the girls are required to pass blood tests, but i don't think it should be legal everywhere. There should be limits placed to where they can conduct business. I for one would not want to live next door to a brothel or look out my window and see crack *****s selling themselves in the street.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If you only reason to be on this site is to get laid, then by all means stop wasting your time and hire a prostitute. If that is all you want. Honestly though, you are engaging a profession that essentially dehumanizes YOU and HER. Do you just want limited by your physical desires? Yeah, I know it is dificult, but man that is life. Is she nothing more than a wet hole? Come on have some respect for yourself.
If you could care less about yourself, yeah go ahead do it.
It is a horrible profession that exploits the great majority of people involved. Yes, you are being exploited by you innability to have a backbone and do the right thing.
Sure people do it willingly. It is still wrong.
You know why a lot of people can't get attention from women? Beacuse they don't have any character. Because they don't have any sense. Because they don't have anything to live for beside their base desires.
Knowledge is important. We have to be willing to choose the right path. By being honest with ourselves is the only way. Don't choose what you know is wrong.
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If guys could find quality inexpensive full service escorts most men wouldnt get married until their 40's. Most of us just want a lil female attention, a nut, and then be on our way to hangout with friends.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
There are advantages and disadvantages to getting an escort/prostitute. The advantages are:
a) It lets you get off without resorting to your left hand
b) If you are inexperienced they can help you to become more confortable in the bedroom and give you tips and tricks to get a woman off.
c) A lot of escorts are really good listeners and are fairly intelligent. Most can give you better advice than any you will get from a shrink
The disadvantages are:
1) Its expensive. Most escorts usually start at $120 for an hour and some of the more exclusive ones can charge up to $1k
2) It is still illegal, though where I live (Canada) most law enforcement seem to turn a blind eye to it... most of the time.
3) You are still having to pay to have sex, which does degrade you and her, no matter how much she says she enjoys what she does.
Personally I dont find anything wrong with hiring an escort if you really, really need to get off as long as your willing to lose a bit of your self respect. Sometimes it is worth it, sometimes it is not. And I will admit some of the girls are pretty hot