"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I wish prostitution was legal...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
do a searchOriginally posted by Eternal
Did I miss something while in college?
last i heard on the bham news was that in centerpoint (birmingham) they found a chinese nail place or massage place pimping girls out and got in trouble and had a big to do about it on the tv. they said it was legal to buy it and sell it but dont pimp your sister or you will go to jail. this was back in 1997.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
There are 2 forms of prostitution here in Nevada. There's the legal kind and then there's the "legal" kind. The first of which is going out to the chicken ranch and paying out the wassu for a menu of hot girls to line up and you get to rail one of them. I went out with some out of towners who got some from those girls, and they paid for me to get a massage from a nice asian (no happy ending but it was pretty decent anyway)
The other type of prositution is "legal" because prostitution is illegal in Clark County (Las Vegas). However running an escort service is legal in just about any part of the country. So what ends up happening is you page through the phone book and find "full service" escorts. When you call them and ask about sex they say the following statement verbatum "Of course prostitution is illegal in Clark County, but whatever happens between you and the girl off the books, we don't know about." So there you have it, they pretty much tell you that you can pay for sex but they've got a blind eye to any such transactions. I'm sure this happens in just about every major metropolitian city in America. In fact a lot of the strippers who go to the hotel rooms are nothing but prostitutes as well. I met a group of guys who were having a bachelor party and they asked the "stripper" to dance on the tables and show some TnA, you know stripper stuff. And she said to them "I don't really do that kind of thing, is there anything I can do with any of you one on one behind closed doors?"
So prostitution is pretty much legal in the vast majority of the country whethe you see it on the news or not. Its a shame because the actual legalized prostitution is so much safer for people who are going to pay for it. The girls are tested twice a month for STD's and if contracts one then her carrier is obviously over. So it's a definately a cleaner industry when regulated and the government really does enjoy the tax money it generates... right along with the gambling and 24 hour liquor service in NV.
The other type of prositution is "legal" because prostitution is illegal in Clark County (Las Vegas). However running an escort service is legal in just about any part of the country. So what ends up happening is you page through the phone book and find "full service" escorts. When you call them and ask about sex they say the following statement verbatum "Of course prostitution is illegal in Clark County, but whatever happens between you and the girl off the books, we don't know about." So there you have it, they pretty much tell you that you can pay for sex but they've got a blind eye to any such transactions. I'm sure this happens in just about every major metropolitian city in America. In fact a lot of the strippers who go to the hotel rooms are nothing but prostitutes as well. I met a group of guys who were having a bachelor party and they asked the "stripper" to dance on the tables and show some TnA, you know stripper stuff. And she said to them "I don't really do that kind of thing, is there anything I can do with any of you one on one behind closed doors?"
So prostitution is pretty much legal in the vast majority of the country whethe you see it on the news or not. Its a shame because the actual legalized prostitution is so much safer for people who are going to pay for it. The girls are tested twice a month for STD's and if contracts one then her carrier is obviously over. So it's a definately a cleaner industry when regulated and the government really does enjoy the tax money it generates... right along with the gambling and 24 hour liquor service in NV.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I have no moral issues with prostitution. Where I really get angry is where the girls are 'sex slaves'.
I couldn't believe it, but here in the UK there are thousands of girls from asia and eastern europe shipped over and forced to work and get badly treated, some murdered. All run by organised crime.
How guys can go to these girls regularly, knowing they are in a living hell and turn a blind eye. Bad news.
A big industry here is lap dancing. Now these girls make a packet and the punters are real mugs. An arse in the face is about it and it ain't cheep.
I couldn't believe it, but here in the UK there are thousands of girls from asia and eastern europe shipped over and forced to work and get badly treated, some murdered. All run by organised crime.
How guys can go to these girls regularly, knowing they are in a living hell and turn a blind eye. Bad news.
A big industry here is lap dancing. Now these girls make a packet and the punters are real mugs. An arse in the face is about it and it ain't cheep.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I believe that prostitution should be legal as long as it's taxed, regulated, and the girls are required to pass blood tests, but i don't think it should be legal everywhere. There should be limits placed to where they can conduct business. I for one would not want to live next door to a brothel or look out my window and see crack *****s selling themselves in the street.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Because nobody has said it yet
If you only reason to be on this site is to get laid, then by all means stop wasting your time and hire a prostitute. If that is all you want. Honestly though, you are engaging a profession that essentially dehumanizes YOU and HER. Do you just want limited by your physical desires? Yeah, I know it is dificult, but man that is life. Is she nothing more than a wet hole? Come on have some respect for yourself.
If you could care less about yourself, yeah go ahead do it.
It is a horrible profession that exploits the great majority of people involved. Yes, you are being exploited by you innability to have a backbone and do the right thing.
Sure people do it willingly. It is still wrong.
You know why a lot of people can't get attention from women? Beacuse they don't have any character. Because they don't have any sense. Because they don't have anything to live for beside their base desires.
Knowledge is important. We have to be willing to choose the right path. By being honest with ourselves is the only way. Don't choose what you know is wrong.
If you only reason to be on this site is to get laid, then by all means stop wasting your time and hire a prostitute. If that is all you want. Honestly though, you are engaging a profession that essentially dehumanizes YOU and HER. Do you just want limited by your physical desires? Yeah, I know it is dificult, but man that is life. Is she nothing more than a wet hole? Come on have some respect for yourself.
If you could care less about yourself, yeah go ahead do it.
It is a horrible profession that exploits the great majority of people involved. Yes, you are being exploited by you innability to have a backbone and do the right thing.
Sure people do it willingly. It is still wrong.
You know why a lot of people can't get attention from women? Beacuse they don't have any character. Because they don't have any sense. Because they don't have anything to live for beside their base desires.
Knowledge is important. We have to be willing to choose the right path. By being honest with ourselves is the only way. Don't choose what you know is wrong.
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congrats---I'm glad your happy
If guys could find quality inexpensive full service escorts most men wouldnt get married until their 40's. Most of us just want a lil female attention, a nut, and then be on our way to hangout with friends.
If guys could find quality inexpensive full service escorts most men wouldnt get married until their 40's. Most of us just want a lil female attention, a nut, and then be on our way to hangout with friends.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Well done mate. Now you've got that out of the way you can focus on becoming a true DJ.
Here is my 2 cents to this topic
There are advantages and disadvantages to getting an escort/prostitute. The advantages are:
a) It lets you get off without resorting to your left hand
b) If you are inexperienced they can help you to become more confortable in the bedroom and give you tips and tricks to get a woman off.
c) A lot of escorts are really good listeners and are fairly intelligent. Most can give you better advice than any you will get from a shrink
The disadvantages are:
1) Its expensive. Most escorts usually start at $120 for an hour and some of the more exclusive ones can charge up to $1k
2) It is still illegal, though where I live (Canada) most law enforcement seem to turn a blind eye to it... most of the time.
3) You are still having to pay to have sex, which does degrade you and her, no matter how much she says she enjoys what she does.
Personally I dont find anything wrong with hiring an escort if you really, really need to get off as long as your willing to lose a bit of your self respect. Sometimes it is worth it, sometimes it is not. And I will admit some of the girls are pretty hot
There are advantages and disadvantages to getting an escort/prostitute. The advantages are:
a) It lets you get off without resorting to your left hand
b) If you are inexperienced they can help you to become more confortable in the bedroom and give you tips and tricks to get a woman off.
c) A lot of escorts are really good listeners and are fairly intelligent. Most can give you better advice than any you will get from a shrink
The disadvantages are:
1) Its expensive. Most escorts usually start at $120 for an hour and some of the more exclusive ones can charge up to $1k
2) It is still illegal, though where I live (Canada) most law enforcement seem to turn a blind eye to it... most of the time.
3) You are still having to pay to have sex, which does degrade you and her, no matter how much she says she enjoys what she does.
Personally I dont find anything wrong with hiring an escort if you really, really need to get off as long as your willing to lose a bit of your self respect. Sometimes it is worth it, sometimes it is not. And I will admit some of the girls are pretty hot