"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I wish prostitution was legal...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
do a searchOriginally posted by Eternal
Did I miss something while in college?
last i heard on the bham news was that in centerpoint (birmingham) they found a chinese nail place or massage place pimping girls out and got in trouble and had a big to do about it on the tv. they said it was legal to buy it and sell it but dont pimp your sister or you will go to jail. this was back in 1997.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
The other type of prositution is "legal" because prostitution is illegal in Clark County (Las Vegas). However running an escort service is legal in just about any part of the country. So what ends up happening is you page through the phone book and find "full service" escorts. When you call them and ask about sex they say the following statement verbatum "Of course prostitution is illegal in Clark County, but whatever happens between you and the girl off the books, we don't know about." So there you have it, they pretty much tell you that you can pay for sex but they've got a blind eye to any such transactions. I'm sure this happens in just about every major metropolitian city in America. In fact a lot of the strippers who go to the hotel rooms are nothing but prostitutes as well. I met a group of guys who were having a bachelor party and they asked the "stripper" to dance on the tables and show some TnA, you know stripper stuff. And she said to them "I don't really do that kind of thing, is there anything I can do with any of you one on one behind closed doors?"
So prostitution is pretty much legal in the vast majority of the country whethe you see it on the news or not. Its a shame because the actual legalized prostitution is so much safer for people who are going to pay for it. The girls are tested twice a month for STD's and if contracts one then her carrier is obviously over. So it's a definately a cleaner industry when regulated and the government really does enjoy the tax money it generates... right along with the gambling and 24 hour liquor service in NV.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I couldn't believe it, but here in the UK there are thousands of girls from asia and eastern europe shipped over and forced to work and get badly treated, some murdered. All run by organised crime.
How guys can go to these girls regularly, knowing they are in a living hell and turn a blind eye. Bad news.
A big industry here is lap dancing. Now these girls make a packet and the punters are real mugs. An arse in the face is about it and it ain't cheep.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I believe that prostitution should be legal as long as it's taxed, regulated, and the girls are required to pass blood tests, but i don't think it should be legal everywhere. There should be limits placed to where they can conduct business. I for one would not want to live next door to a brothel or look out my window and see crack *****s selling themselves in the street.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you only reason to be on this site is to get laid, then by all means stop wasting your time and hire a prostitute. If that is all you want. Honestly though, you are engaging a profession that essentially dehumanizes YOU and HER. Do you just want limited by your physical desires? Yeah, I know it is dificult, but man that is life. Is she nothing more than a wet hole? Come on have some respect for yourself.
If you could care less about yourself, yeah go ahead do it.
It is a horrible profession that exploits the great majority of people involved. Yes, you are being exploited by you innability to have a backbone and do the right thing.
Sure people do it willingly. It is still wrong.
You know why a lot of people can't get attention from women? Beacuse they don't have any character. Because they don't have any sense. Because they don't have anything to live for beside their base desires.
Knowledge is important. We have to be willing to choose the right path. By being honest with ourselves is the only way. Don't choose what you know is wrong.
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If guys could find quality inexpensive full service escorts most men wouldnt get married until their 40's. Most of us just want a lil female attention, a nut, and then be on our way to hangout with friends.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
There are advantages and disadvantages to getting an escort/prostitute. The advantages are:
a) It lets you get off without resorting to your left hand
b) If you are inexperienced they can help you to become more confortable in the bedroom and give you tips and tricks to get a woman off.
c) A lot of escorts are really good listeners and are fairly intelligent. Most can give you better advice than any you will get from a shrink
The disadvantages are:
1) Its expensive. Most escorts usually start at $120 for an hour and some of the more exclusive ones can charge up to $1k
2) It is still illegal, though where I live (Canada) most law enforcement seem to turn a blind eye to it... most of the time.
3) You are still having to pay to have sex, which does degrade you and her, no matter how much she says she enjoys what she does.
Personally I dont find anything wrong with hiring an escort if you really, really need to get off as long as your willing to lose a bit of your self respect. Sometimes it is worth it, sometimes it is not. And I will admit some of the girls are pretty hot