"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

I will never understand ...

J

JohnChops

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2012
Messages
2,734
Reaction score
481
Location
No more keyboard jockeying . Action is the place.
why guys must be glued... i mean GLUED to their girlfriends at all times, 25/7, all day every day. Its getting insane. Example - me and my friends are heading out tonight to get some black friday tech shopping done and they invite their girlfriend :down: Just why? Everywhere I go I swear they must bring their tagalongs with them. I literally have one friend who has my mentality. This is just getting ridiculous now. Its not even my friends I see it everywhere! Even at the gym, this guy is teaching this girl how to squat, then they talk forever taking up the god damn squat rack.... come on guys have some fvcking dignity! I feel like they think a woman is some kind of reward, a prize, that they won and want to wear on their shoulder. ERRRRRRRRR Wrong. Thats how you think when your desperate, you are the prize. IF these guys understood that then the world would be a better place.

/endrant
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

E

Epimanes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,268
Reaction score
615
Age
48
Its hard to be in love if your ignore each other. I see nothing wrong with bringing your GF or wife. My wife acts like "one of the guys".

Its great that they are figuring out ways to be together. To maintain a romantic relationship you need to spend 15 hours a week of UNDIVIDED attention. NO friends .. no TV, no kids .. no distractions. Just you and her ... meeting the top 4 intimate needs of affection, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment, and intimate conversation.

Sure there is times when I dont do things with my wife and only do things with my friends, but ONLY after i have done some "relationship maintenance".

When people are in new relationships .. they will tend to want to spend time together because they are in love ... you become irresistable to each other when your in love. And I dont mean "in love" just wanting to get your **** wet or "in lust" ... i mean .. REALLY in love.

Or .. maybe your just jealous? *shrugs* lol
 
O

om1xr

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2012
Messages
332
Reaction score
72
Well i guess their girlfriends have their balls in their purses .... this is the only explanation !!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

B

betheman

Banned
Joined
Nov 4, 2010
Messages
1,843
Reaction score
67
Epimanes said:
Its hard to be in love if your ignore each other. I see nothing wrong with bringing your GF or wife. My wife acts like "one of the guys".

Its great that they are figuring out ways to be together. To maintain a romantic relationship you need to spend 15 hours a week of UNDIVIDED attention. NO friends .. no TV, no kids .. no distractions. Just you and her ... meeting the top 4 intimate needs of affection, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment, and intimate conversation.

Sure there is times when I dont do things with my wife and only do things with my friends, but ONLY after i have done some "relationship maintenance".

When people are in new relationships .. they will tend to want to spend time together because they are in love ... you become irresistable to each other when your in love. And I dont mean "in love" just wanting to get your **** wet or "in lust" ... i mean .. REALLY in love.

Or .. maybe your just jealous? *shrugs* lol
Click to expand...
the bold part is the kind of retort I expect froma female. in essence I think this is what being in love does, it feminises the male
 
U

Upside

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
397
Reaction score
16
Location
I'm still looking
it feminises the male

So do girls that fall in love with men masculinize the female? Would men and women be better off if they were to ignore contact with each other to retain their masculinity/femininity?
 
B

Burroughs

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2011
Messages
2,171
Reaction score
99
betheman said:
the bold part is the kind of retort I expect froma female. in essence I think this is what being in love does, it feminises the male
Click to expand...

epimanes is a female....put his faggot post into this site and you will see.http://bookblog.net/gender/genie.php

398:134...female!
 
B

betheman

Banned
Joined
Nov 4, 2010
Messages
1,843
Reaction score
67
Upside said:
it feminises the male

So do girls that fall in love with men masculinize the female? Would men and women be better off if they were to ignore contact with each other to retain their masculinity/femininity?
Click to expand...
you have got that the wrong way round but I get what you mean, the answer...no, women do not become more masculine, they do become more confident and bolder, masculine traits indeed but, they are feeding off having a male alongside...any male really. we cant avoid contact, that would be silly but as a man, the trick is, retaining your balls, too many men give them up, Ive been there and am as guilty as anyone...keep hold of the twins
 
M

Married Buried

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 1, 2012
Messages
1,881
Reaction score
70
Stop whining OP and use this to your advantage. Tell them the only way you will go is if she brings a cute friend for you.

This is how you win.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top