“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JohnChops

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why guys must be glued... i mean GLUED to their girlfriends at all times, 25/7, all day every day. Its getting insane. Example - me and my friends are heading out tonight to get some black friday tech shopping done and they invite their girlfriend :down: Just why? Everywhere I go I swear they must bring their tagalongs with them. I literally have one friend who has my mentality. This is just getting ridiculous now. Its not even my friends I see it everywhere! Even at the gym, this guy is teaching this girl how to squat, then they talk forever taking up the god damn squat rack.... come on guys have some fvcking dignity! I feel like they think a woman is some kind of reward, a prize, that they won and want to wear on their shoulder. ERRRRRRRRR Wrong. Thats how you think when your desperate, you are the prize. IF these guys understood that then the world would be a better place.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its hard to be in love if your ignore each other. I see nothing wrong with bringing your GF or wife. My wife acts like "one of the guys".

Its great that they are figuring out ways to be together. To maintain a romantic relationship you need to spend 15 hours a week of UNDIVIDED attention. NO friends .. no TV, no kids .. no distractions. Just you and her ... meeting the top 4 intimate needs of affection, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment, and intimate conversation.

Sure there is times when I dont do things with my wife and only do things with my friends, but ONLY after i have done some "relationship maintenance".

When people are in new relationships .. they will tend to want to spend time together because they are in love ... you become irresistable to each other when your in love. And I dont mean "in love" just wanting to get your **** wet or "in lust" ... i mean .. REALLY in love.

Or .. maybe your just jealous? *shrugs* lol
 

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Well i guess their girlfriends have their balls in their purses .... this is the only explanation !!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Epimanes said:
Its hard to be in love if your ignore each other. I see nothing wrong with bringing your GF or wife. My wife acts like "one of the guys".

Its great that they are figuring out ways to be together. To maintain a romantic relationship you need to spend 15 hours a week of UNDIVIDED attention. NO friends .. no TV, no kids .. no distractions. Just you and her ... meeting the top 4 intimate needs of affection, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment, and intimate conversation.

Sure there is times when I dont do things with my wife and only do things with my friends, but ONLY after i have done some "relationship maintenance".

When people are in new relationships .. they will tend to want to spend time together because they are in love ... you become irresistable to each other when your in love. And I dont mean "in love" just wanting to get your **** wet or "in lust" ... i mean .. REALLY in love.

Or .. maybe your just jealous? *shrugs* lol
the bold part is the kind of retort I expect froma female. in essence I think this is what being in love does, it feminises the male
 

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it feminises the male

So do girls that fall in love with men masculinize the female? Would men and women be better off if they were to ignore contact with each other to retain their masculinity/femininity?
 

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betheman said:
the bold part is the kind of retort I expect froma female. in essence I think this is what being in love does, it feminises the male

epimanes is a female....put his faggot post into this site and you will see.http://bookblog.net/gender/genie.php

398:134...female!
 

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Upside said:
it feminises the male

So do girls that fall in love with men masculinize the female? Would men and women be better off if they were to ignore contact with each other to retain their masculinity/femininity?
you have got that the wrong way round but I get what you mean, the answer...no, women do not become more masculine, they do become more confident and bolder, masculine traits indeed but, they are feeding off having a male alongside...any male really. we cant avoid contact, that would be silly but as a man, the trick is, retaining your balls, too many men give them up, Ive been there and am as guilty as anyone...keep hold of the twins
 

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Stop whining OP and use this to your advantage. Tell them the only way you will go is if she brings a cute friend for you.

This is how you win.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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