"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why guys must be glued... i mean GLUED to their girlfriends at all times, 25/7, all day every day. Its getting insane. Example - me and my friends are heading out tonight to get some black friday tech shopping done and they invite their girlfriend :down: Just why? Everywhere I go I swear they must bring their tagalongs with them. I literally have one friend who has my mentality. This is just getting ridiculous now. Its not even my friends I see it everywhere! Even at the gym, this guy is teaching this girl how to squat, then they talk forever taking up the god damn squat rack.... come on guys have some fvcking dignity! I feel like they think a woman is some kind of reward, a prize, that they won and want to wear on their shoulder. ERRRRRRRRR Wrong. Thats how you think when your desperate, you are the prize. IF these guys understood that then the world would be a better place.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Its hard to be in love if your ignore each other. I see nothing wrong with bringing your GF or wife. My wife acts like "one of the guys".

Its great that they are figuring out ways to be together. To maintain a romantic relationship you need to spend 15 hours a week of UNDIVIDED attention. NO friends .. no TV, no kids .. no distractions. Just you and her ... meeting the top 4 intimate needs of affection, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment, and intimate conversation.

Sure there is times when I dont do things with my wife and only do things with my friends, but ONLY after i have done some "relationship maintenance".

When people are in new relationships .. they will tend to want to spend time together because they are in love ... you become irresistable to each other when your in love. And I dont mean "in love" just wanting to get your **** wet or "in lust" ... i mean .. REALLY in love.

Or .. maybe your just jealous? *shrugs* lol
 
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Well i guess their girlfriends have their balls in their purses .... this is the only explanation !!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Epimanes said:
Its hard to be in love if your ignore each other. I see nothing wrong with bringing your GF or wife. My wife acts like "one of the guys".

Its great that they are figuring out ways to be together. To maintain a romantic relationship you need to spend 15 hours a week of UNDIVIDED attention. NO friends .. no TV, no kids .. no distractions. Just you and her ... meeting the top 4 intimate needs of affection, recreational companionship, sexual fulfillment, and intimate conversation.

Sure there is times when I dont do things with my wife and only do things with my friends, but ONLY after i have done some "relationship maintenance".

When people are in new relationships .. they will tend to want to spend time together because they are in love ... you become irresistable to each other when your in love. And I dont mean "in love" just wanting to get your **** wet or "in lust" ... i mean .. REALLY in love.

Or .. maybe your just jealous? *shrugs* lol
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the bold part is the kind of retort I expect froma female. in essence I think this is what being in love does, it feminises the male
 
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it feminises the male

So do girls that fall in love with men masculinize the female? Would men and women be better off if they were to ignore contact with each other to retain their masculinity/femininity?
 
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the bold part is the kind of retort I expect froma female. in essence I think this is what being in love does, it feminises the male
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epimanes is a female....put his faggot post into this site and you will see.http://bookblog.net/gender/genie.php

398:134...female!
 
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Upside said:
it feminises the male

So do girls that fall in love with men masculinize the female? Would men and women be better off if they were to ignore contact with each other to retain their masculinity/femininity?
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you have got that the wrong way round but I get what you mean, the answer...no, women do not become more masculine, they do become more confident and bolder, masculine traits indeed but, they are feeding off having a male alongside...any male really. we cant avoid contact, that would be silly but as a man, the trick is, retaining your balls, too many men give them up, Ive been there and am as guilty as anyone...keep hold of the twins
 
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Stop whining OP and use this to your advantage. Tell them the only way you will go is if she brings a cute friend for you.

This is how you win.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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