"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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right now I don't think my head is right to be meeting women. A few days ago, I met this woman. Very pretty and very traditional. BUT I am not attracted to her. I had to simmer on this for a bit. I kept thinking, why am I not attracted to her. She's close by, she's shown interest, and she'd probably be good to date with. Yet I am not attracted to her.

Then I met another girl who is just fvcking hot. I made a move on her when I was drunk, and I got D-nyied. Then enters her friend on to the scene. Also she is very hot. And Available.

But the thing is with girl #3, I've not really been turned down, but I know that she is a)high maintainance, and b)attracted to someone else.

Maybe it's because I am a tad competitive, or I think it's because I am still sorting out all the crap I left behind this year (It was a real stinker right up to the very hour I left Canada). Maybe it was all the alcohol I drank last night. I have onitis.

In my drunken self-loathing desperation, I played a card that I have a rule to never play because it's an act of desperation. I played the rich guy card, when her friend told me she dumped a guy who had an average income. I told her friend that my family has a big business back home so money isn't a problem.

I feel like **** cause I am hung over, and I have oneitis, and I broke my most sacred rule for dating.

I have a very strong feeling that trying to bed hottie #3 is going to be a long pointless journey. Honestly, I've seen this movie before and I don't like how it usually ends.

I have so much mental **** to sort through right now I don't even think I should be having anything to do with women in the mean time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We all have ups and downs. Just get back on the right mind set.
 

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THanks IAFYB.

I think I must work out more. and crank up the C+F. Also I need to decide what the fvck I am doing. I have no Idea.
 

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Update:

I took a weekend trip to a sunny beach resort and ended up meeting a new chick. It took me a whole 69 hours to get over my oneitis. New world record.
 
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