"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wasn't going to post this but...

SharinganUser

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right now I don't think my head is right to be meeting women. A few days ago, I met this woman. Very pretty and very traditional. BUT I am not attracted to her. I had to simmer on this for a bit. I kept thinking, why am I not attracted to her. She's close by, she's shown interest, and she'd probably be good to date with. Yet I am not attracted to her.

Then I met another girl who is just fvcking hot. I made a move on her when I was drunk, and I got D-nyied. Then enters her friend on to the scene. Also she is very hot. And Available.

But the thing is with girl #3, I've not really been turned down, but I know that she is a)high maintainance, and b)attracted to someone else.

Maybe it's because I am a tad competitive, or I think it's because I am still sorting out all the crap I left behind this year (It was a real stinker right up to the very hour I left Canada). Maybe it was all the alcohol I drank last night. I have onitis.

In my drunken self-loathing desperation, I played a card that I have a rule to never play because it's an act of desperation. I played the rich guy card, when her friend told me she dumped a guy who had an average income. I told her friend that my family has a big business back home so money isn't a problem.

I feel like **** cause I am hung over, and I have oneitis, and I broke my most sacred rule for dating.

I have a very strong feeling that trying to bed hottie #3 is going to be a long pointless journey. Honestly, I've seen this movie before and I don't like how it usually ends.

I have so much mental **** to sort through right now I don't even think I should be having anything to do with women in the mean time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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We all have ups and downs. Just get back on the right mind set.
 

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THanks IAFYB.

I think I must work out more. and crank up the C+F. Also I need to decide what the fvck I am doing. I have no Idea.
 

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Update:

I took a weekend trip to a sunny beach resort and ended up meeting a new chick. It took me a whole 69 hours to get over my oneitis. New world record.
 
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