"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wasn't going to post this but...

SharinganUser

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right now I don't think my head is right to be meeting women. A few days ago, I met this woman. Very pretty and very traditional. BUT I am not attracted to her. I had to simmer on this for a bit. I kept thinking, why am I not attracted to her. She's close by, she's shown interest, and she'd probably be good to date with. Yet I am not attracted to her.

Then I met another girl who is just fvcking hot. I made a move on her when I was drunk, and I got D-nyied. Then enters her friend on to the scene. Also she is very hot. And Available.

But the thing is with girl #3, I've not really been turned down, but I know that she is a)high maintainance, and b)attracted to someone else.

Maybe it's because I am a tad competitive, or I think it's because I am still sorting out all the crap I left behind this year (It was a real stinker right up to the very hour I left Canada). Maybe it was all the alcohol I drank last night. I have onitis.

In my drunken self-loathing desperation, I played a card that I have a rule to never play because it's an act of desperation. I played the rich guy card, when her friend told me she dumped a guy who had an average income. I told her friend that my family has a big business back home so money isn't a problem.

I feel like **** cause I am hung over, and I have oneitis, and I broke my most sacred rule for dating.

I have a very strong feeling that trying to bed hottie #3 is going to be a long pointless journey. Honestly, I've seen this movie before and I don't like how it usually ends.

I have so much mental **** to sort through right now I don't even think I should be having anything to do with women in the mean time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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We all have ups and downs. Just get back on the right mind set.
 

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THanks IAFYB.

I think I must work out more. and crank up the C+F. Also I need to decide what the fvck I am doing. I have no Idea.
 

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Update:

I took a weekend trip to a sunny beach resort and ended up meeting a new chick. It took me a whole 69 hours to get over my oneitis. New world record.
 
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