"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wasnt born a Don Juan, but I'm sure as hell going to die one.

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First of all, back in May I went through a break-up. I am now finally over it and ready to move on.

I am what you would call a beta. A people pleaser. I am reading the DJ bible and other sites so that I can work on my game. I am loving it and already seeing some improvements in my life. I work hard in the gym and have seen major results. This has helped my confidence level a lot.

Tonight I will be going to a bday party and I plan on chatting up chicks and hopefully get a number of a specific chick. I have always checked her out but I was engaged so not available. She is a friend of a friend. How should I approach her tonight and let her know that I'm ready to escalate our "status quo"?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You're still going at it the wrong way. Go to the party without expectation. Have fun. If you become outcome dependant, you're bound to fail. Prepare yourself if the CHANCE does arise rather than flabbergasting it. Besides that you should be chatting and flirting with ALL of the woman.
 
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thanks for the advice. I got a new hair cut today and I am on my way to the party. I will report back on how things went down.
 
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UPDATE: the original chick never arrived at the party but I followed your advice and flirted with all the girls. I got invited by one girl to a party saturday night. I had a blast there and then got the digits of a hot blonde.

so I would say all in all a very successful weekend for this noob.
 
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