"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wasnt born a Don Juan, but I'm sure as hell going to die one.

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First of all, back in May I went through a break-up. I am now finally over it and ready to move on.

I am what you would call a beta. A people pleaser. I am reading the DJ bible and other sites so that I can work on my game. I am loving it and already seeing some improvements in my life. I work hard in the gym and have seen major results. This has helped my confidence level a lot.

Tonight I will be going to a bday party and I plan on chatting up chicks and hopefully get a number of a specific chick. I have always checked her out but I was engaged so not available. She is a friend of a friend. How should I approach her tonight and let her know that I'm ready to escalate our "status quo"?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're still going at it the wrong way. Go to the party without expectation. Have fun. If you become outcome dependant, you're bound to fail. Prepare yourself if the CHANCE does arise rather than flabbergasting it. Besides that you should be chatting and flirting with ALL of the woman.
 
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thanks for the advice. I got a new hair cut today and I am on my way to the party. I will report back on how things went down.
 
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UPDATE: the original chick never arrived at the party but I followed your advice and flirted with all the girls. I got invited by one girl to a party saturday night. I had a blast there and then got the digits of a hot blonde.

so I would say all in all a very successful weekend for this noob.
 
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