"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I wasnt born a Don Juan, but I'm sure as hell going to die one.

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First of all, back in May I went through a break-up. I am now finally over it and ready to move on.

I am what you would call a beta. A people pleaser. I am reading the DJ bible and other sites so that I can work on my game. I am loving it and already seeing some improvements in my life. I work hard in the gym and have seen major results. This has helped my confidence level a lot.

Tonight I will be going to a bday party and I plan on chatting up chicks and hopefully get a number of a specific chick. I have always checked her out but I was engaged so not available. She is a friend of a friend. How should I approach her tonight and let her know that I'm ready to escalate our "status quo"?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're still going at it the wrong way. Go to the party without expectation. Have fun. If you become outcome dependant, you're bound to fail. Prepare yourself if the CHANCE does arise rather than flabbergasting it. Besides that you should be chatting and flirting with ALL of the woman.
 
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thanks for the advice. I got a new hair cut today and I am on my way to the party. I will report back on how things went down.
 
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UPDATE: the original chick never arrived at the party but I followed your advice and flirted with all the girls. I got invited by one girl to a party saturday night. I had a blast there and then got the digits of a hot blonde.

so I would say all in all a very successful weekend for this noob.
 
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