Intrakit98
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How can you realistically tell from far away if a girl is into you w/out talking to her first?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I was wondering.......
- Thread starter Intrakit98
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WalkingStick
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Eye contact and a smile is about all you can get and all you really need.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
what if they look at u and dont smile
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Intrakit98
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yeah the most common thing that happens is that girls will look at me, but dont smile, which leaves me puzzled.
Gia Giovanni
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She thought you were someone else and was not sure.VdoubleR said:It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
She is only interested to find out if it your cologne she likes or the other guy's.VdoubleR said:2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
She is trying to read your t-shirt and feels caught in the act.VdoubleR said:3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
You friends want to see you make an ass of yourself when you try to hit on her.VdoubleR said:4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
That's the girl for you.VdoubleR said:5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.