Intrakit98
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How can you realistically tell from far away if a girl is into you w/out talking to her first?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was wondering.......
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WalkingStick
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Eye contact and a smile is about all you can get and all you really need.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
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what if they look at u and dont smile
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Intrakit98
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yeah the most common thing that happens is that girls will look at me, but dont smile, which leaves me puzzled.
Gia Giovanni
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She thought you were someone else and was not sure.VdoubleR said:It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
She is only interested to find out if it your cologne she likes or the other guy's.VdoubleR said:2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
She is trying to read your t-shirt and feels caught in the act.VdoubleR said:3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
You friends want to see you make an ass of yourself when you try to hit on her.VdoubleR said:4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
That's the girl for you.VdoubleR said:5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.