Intrakit98
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How can you realistically tell from far away if a girl is into you w/out talking to her first?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I was wondering.......
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WalkingStick
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Eye contact and a smile is about all you can get and all you really need.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
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what if they look at u and dont smile
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Intrakit98
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yeah the most common thing that happens is that girls will look at me, but dont smile, which leaves me puzzled.
Gia Giovanni
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She thought you were someone else and was not sure.VdoubleR said:It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
She is only interested to find out if it your cologne she likes or the other guy's.VdoubleR said:2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
She is trying to read your t-shirt and feels caught in the act.VdoubleR said:3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
You friends want to see you make an ass of yourself when you try to hit on her.VdoubleR said:4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
That's the girl for you.VdoubleR said:5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.