Intrakit98
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How can you realistically tell from far away if a girl is into you w/out talking to her first?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I was wondering.......
- Thread starter Intrakit98
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WalkingStick
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Eye contact and a smile is about all you can get and all you really need.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
Bottom line: Don't worry about her initial interest level. If you want her, GO GET HER.
It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.
-VdoubleR
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what if they look at u and dont smile
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Intrakit98
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yeah the most common thing that happens is that girls will look at me, but dont smile, which leaves me puzzled.
Gia Giovanni
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She thought you were someone else and was not sure.VdoubleR said:It's better to approach and start a conversation to find out if she's interested or not. But, since you ask for "far away signs" some are:
1) You catch her looking at you and she offers you a smile.
She is only interested to find out if it your cologne she likes or the other guy's.VdoubleR said:2) She just happens to get a little closer and closer to you.
She is trying to read your t-shirt and feels caught in the act.VdoubleR said:3) You catch her looking and then she looks away shyly.
You friends want to see you make an ass of yourself when you try to hit on her.VdoubleR said:4) Your friends tell you she gave you an "eye fvck"
That's the girl for you.VdoubleR said:5) She runs towards you yelling "Kiss me, you idiot" lol.