"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was a natural as a child. How did transformation happen?

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cloneofstenyhoyer

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and I'm sure many on this forum were as well. I remember tonguing girls down in 1st grade at my birthday party. I was a pimp on top of the world. I use to tease girls and get them to be my girlfriends - easy as pie. Then - social conditioning happened. But how did this this happen. What conditioned me to be anti-social? to be scared of women? to second guess myself? to give too much significance to my interactions with women?

was it the media? school?

I don't know. Maybe someone on here does.

I do have some success with women (I've slept with over 10) - I've had 3 relationships lasting over two years - but I still run into anxiety around women. I still often times 'not knowing what to do' or find myself being needy or even arrogant (since I know I've had success in the past). I alternate sometimes between a 'what will she think of me' ego state and a 'I've had success in the past with women' ego. both are traps. especially the latter because it is harder to see as a problem. I get this 'cooler than everyone else, too cool to talk to anyone' type ego thing going on - and this is harder to break than afc habits.

how do I balance and become how I was as a 5 year old boy?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Think about this: How much did you care of how you came off to people when you were 5? You wore anything, said anything without being ashamed of yourself.
If you did the same now, I'd just say you have balls and confidence. I guess you're thinking about what you're doing and how you're coming off to other people too much. Work on your inner game, improve your self-confidence and just be happy with yourself. You can't be loved before you start loving yourself and the more you do, the more other people will, too. :)
 
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Obviously you need to go back to gaming 5 year olds. ;)
 
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