"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I want to smell good what are some good colognes

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Wolf said:
Armanis Mania: Black Code

(No NOT the womens one...)

I had a bottle and received tons of compliments, and lots of girls asking me to get closer...

Can't be bad eh?
That is a really good one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys: Thanks to those who suggested Raw Vanilla... The girls in the office love it!! Don't think it's so great for night use, as the scent dissipates rather quickly, but for day use, it is great!!
 

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yea raw vanilla is awesome..how many sprays should I use?

I think i'm going to mix it with sandalwood
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Polo Black is awesome. Many compliments. So good, I use it when I know I'm not even going out.
 

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Tzolking said:
the new lacoste parfum is quite nice

Lacoste - Elegance (i think)
I just bought some cologne... I ended up buying the new Dolce & Gabana stuff, the Lacoste Elegance was my second choice. The slimmie working the counter hooked me up with a couple sample bottles of the Lacoste stuff though so I am going to try both.
 

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Master Bates said:
That is a really good one.
True dat.
Armani Black Code is the ****.

I read somewhere that if you add a drop or two of vanilla extract to your cologne, girls will something or other... dunno exactly what it said but it was good.

And I can vouch for that because vanilla is a pleasant smell and could probably mix with most colognes.

Hollister Drift and Abercrombie Fierce are really good, too.
 

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Anyone know any sites that send you free samples? Canada please!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm liking
CK One atm..
I went out with some girls
and they chose it

and since then, I've been getting compliments
left, right and centre
 

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I havnt read 10 pages of posts to see if my favorites were already posted.... but here they are.

On a date, or if im going to be around attractive women i wear Ferrari Black or Polo sport. I do get good responses but at the same time i enjoy the smell, i think i smell good, which gives me a little extra confidence.

If i dont want to waste my good cologne on a regular outing to the grocery store, or at work where i dont have many opportunities for approaches, i wear la coste. Its moderatly cheap and is a very subtle nice smelling scent.
 

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Voyage by Nautica is really good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kirra from Pacsun is my favorite, been buying it for a while now, but in that case listen to this... should we men keep using the same scent or use different scents... i could see spicing it up by getting new scents from time to time but what about using the same scent as a "remembrance" scent so when she smells that scent it will remind her of you.. any input fellas? :rock:
 

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Definitely check out "Unforgivable" By Sean John it smells AMAZING. Too bad it's new and expensive, the trade off is that no one else will be wearing it so it's rare. Other good colonges that you get complimented on...

- Aqua De Gio By Armani
- Coolwater
- Curve
- Burberry
- Code
- Huge by Huge Boss
- Polo and Polo blue (Spring / Summer wear)
 

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I use Androstenone phermones...lethal. Then I also use Tag deodorant, After Dark or Midnight Blue..No matter the age of the woman, renders them defenseless. Whoever I sit next to, even guys, like the smell of it, and will welcome my company because of that combination.
 

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I just got Gucci pour homme II, and it's freakin fantastic. I'd definitely recommend checking it out at a store that has it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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