"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I want to smell good what are some good colognes

The__Substitute

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I like this stuff called Joop I get a lot of compliments about it too. Coolwater is a good one too but it seems everyone is wearing that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ryannath

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I have Acqua Di Gio by Armani. I get compliments on it all the time. When I was laying in bed with a chick, before I had sex with her, she snuggled up to me and said, "MMMMMM, you smell good."
 

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Skipping every post.....

Stetson's Untamed by Stetson.

:)

Payne
 

Nico Suave

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Davidoff Cool Water.
Joop!
Jean Paul Gautier Classique.

Personal Favourites at the moment!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BluEyes

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There is a genius on this thread somewhere that suggested putting afew drops of Vanilla Extract into cologne. Best . advice . ever .
 

michaelhctam

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Armani Dark is quite good I usually use it when I go out at night (its a really night time sort of a smell) good for late night 'meetings' :up:
 

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Anything by Armani is usually good.
La Coste` smells pretty good.
 

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For some reason, I have been finding more and more women that love the full on manly, sweaty smell. Generally, this is way more true after youve been with them already. I've had girls get MAD, cuz I wanted to take a shower, or put on deoderant and cologne. Im talking, all kinds of women, even high class, rich gorgeous ones too. Anyone have any thoughts on this? I dont know what to do, before I go out anymore.
 

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Oxide said:
Issey Miyake is my Fav right now, I mix it with Very Sexy sometimes.
you can mix colognes? never tried that :woo:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mistermarc said:
"try not 2 get the very popular ones that every joe has...find one u like!
actually, it's a good idea to get the popular colognes. next she smells that scent she'l be reminded of you.
 

penkitten

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did i ever tell you i like the smell of tide.... detergent on a guys clothes?
 

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currently loving emporio armani (the original one), armani mania, hugo energize, calvin klein crave, gucci rush (this one is awesome, drives them wild, also quite rare, just not sure you can still get it)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chez

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Its good to be wearing cologne that make u smell sweet but it better when it also sexually attracts women... I'm talking about pheromones hear, yeah that thing that animals use to attract & get each other in heat when its mating seasons... I know, we are not animals but our noses don't know that, and since it’s proven to work why not bring to an end the disadvantages of bathing....
 
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I like Ralph Lauren "Heat"...its pretty sweet
 

Charm&Style

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Chez said:
Its good to be wearing cologne that make u smell sweet but it better when it also sexually attracts women... I'm talking about pheromones hear, yeah that thing that animals use to attract & get each other in heat when its mating seasons... I know, we are not animals but our noses don't know that, and since it’s proven to work why not bring to an end the disadvantages of bathing....

i asked my human sexuality professor and she said that pheromones are only for animal senses, in other words yes smelling good can hype you up but there are no "certain scents/pheromones" that make a chick instantly want to bang you.

for instance oceans 13, there is no sh!t that you can poke your neck with that releases a smell that hornifies chicks.


Anyways im a big cologne fanatic and have bought tons but in 2007 by far my favorite 2 colognes are

Ralph Lauren ROMANCE

and Polo BLACK

wow!!

but then again it smells amazing on me, the best thing in buying a cologne is whenever you go the the mall and you smell a cologne that you personally really like, spray some on yourself and go shop around for about 45 minutes and then ask a buddy or a chick or whatever how that cologne smells on you.

Cologne smells vary on people.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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