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I want to have a MFF threesome but there are literally no threads about this topic

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Getting a MFF is more challenging endeavor. I think there have been plenty of threads on this type of threesome.
it’s literally all about right place right time. You obviously need a couple of trash bags that are down for it, and then you simply need them to be in the mood to do it. I have always been solicited for this type of situation never asked. It’s simply timing.
 

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it’s literally all about right place right time. You obviously need a couple of trash bags that are down for it, and then you simply need them to be in the mood to do it. I have always been solicited for this type of situation never asked. It’s simply timing.
So if the hard part is timing, then the other part is just having trashy girls in the rotation? Alright I'm gonna get logistical:
I'm aware that one strategy is to just host parties and let nature (aka drugs, alcohol and cycle timing) take its course, but I really don't want to have to be "Styles" from The Game and have a "Mystery Mansion" in the LA hills just to get two girls hot enough to wanna f*ck each other and me at the same time.

Two girls I've been with in the past had threesomes, one after me sadly, the other multiple times and besides once, they had been circumstantial around two "friends" wanting to f*ck the same "friend" (very highschool sounding because it was). This same girl had also sought out a couple on her own as an adult on bumble and had sex with them, then relational drama happened because it was a married couple.. so of course it did.

From the advice I'm receiving, it seems like I'm on the right track and just need to keep trying? Maybe spin more plates, idk... ??? Should I just be less expectant that just because a girl has had threesomes in the past doesn't mean it'll happen with me? Another big problem with that girl was it was constant effort to keep her. Like the second I'd go out on my own without her to try and find new plates, she'd start talking about "feeling left out" and "wanting to [get poo poo'd on for gucci bags]" and eventually it just lead to me breaking it off.
 

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So if the hard part is timing, then the other part is just having trashy girls in the rotation? Alright I'm gonna get logistical:
I'm aware that one strategy is to just host parties and let nature (aka drugs, alcohol and cycle timing) take its course, but I really don't want to have to be "Styles" from The Game and have a "Mystery Mansion" in the LA hills just to get two girls hot enough to wanna f*ck each other and me at the same time.

Two girls I've been with in the past had threesomes, one after me sadly, the other multiple times and besides once, they had been circumstantial around two "friends" wanting to f*ck the same "friend" (very highschool sounding because it was). This same girl had also sought out a couple on her own as an adult on bumble and had sex with them, then relational drama happened because it was a married couple.. so of course it did.

From the advice I'm receiving, it seems like I'm on the right track and just need to keep trying? Maybe spin more plates, idk... ??? Should I just be less expectant that just because a girl has had threesomes in the past doesn't mean it'll happen with me? Another big problem with that girl was it was constant effort to keep her. Like the second I'd go out on my own without her to try and find new plates, she'd start talking about "feeling left out" and "wanting to [get poo poo'd on for gucci bags]" and eventually it just lead to me breaking it off.
If you speak to either of the girls that did it, and can see sex happening with them again, you should have one of them in your rotation and eventually the opportunity will present itself. Of I had to diagnose the root issue is that I would say you’re not sexual enough in other words giving off threesome vibes. I wouldn’t ask for it outright, I would just start banging her like the wh0re and is and I would think that nature would likely take its course and she and you will probably end up in an environment where another woman will get in on it, probably by her approaching that woman.
 

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Good luck with that. Your original relationship will be doomed. Might take a while for the wheels to fall off but once you do that, it creates an unfixable break in the foundation of the relationship and it's only a matter of time before it crumbles.
 

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Good luck with that. Your original relationship will be doomed. Might take a while for the wheels to fall off but once you do that, it creates an unfixable break in the foundation of the relationship and it's only a matter of time before it crumbles.
Oh yeah I didn’t even see that. Kisd the relationship goodbye.
 

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i’ve had over 30. All really need is a pretty girlfriend who likes other women. Key is to never make your girlfriend feel unnoticed or neglected during the act or you’re screwed. When it comes time to look for another woman, the girl should be doing the hunting not you.
 

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Ive had them in two scenarios. Dating a woman who i knew was bi from the get go and eventually she invites a friend or picks a girl up with you which is even more fun

and also from Craigslist back in the day.
 
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