"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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... I want to get my nose pierced.

Michele l'Arcangelo

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I'm 18, in college and planning on joining the military and get into healthcare.

I ALWAYS wanted to get a facial piercing. I'm actually debating whether or not I should get my nose pierced (ring not stud). It's just something I've always wanted to do.

But, it would totally be an irrational decision because:

1) high school is over
2) I'm 75% sure I'll be joining the military
3) I'm planning on working in a nursing home within 3 months.

Oh, and before you start ranting about big fluffy hats, feathery clothes and such... lay off the Mystery peacocking stuff... that's not why. I don't really know why... just like I said, I've just wanted to do it forever.

Anyone know much about piercings or have any unusual ones? Got any tips? Give me your honest feedback, without being a dick about it of course.

I'm thinking of the "subtle" one like the singer of Taking Back Sunday.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No harm in it really. It doesn't hurt nearly as bad as you think, and you can always take it out when you need to after it heals and replace it with a skin colored 'flat' that people won't be able to see (with exception of the military - I don't think even a 'flat' will be acceptable).

I guess it would also depend on your general appearance. It will work with some looks and not with others. I work with a guy who has two rings in one side, but he also pulls it off because the rest of him fits the theme.
 

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I have a ring in my nose and one in my eyebrow. The nose one fvcking hurt but it looks awesome.

In the beginning it used to feel obtrusive, but now it feels really natural (I've had it almost 2 years). For some reason, nobody seems to mind it. It hasnt affected me getting jobs or anything and people have told me piercings normally bother the sh!t out of them but for some reason mine dont, so I guess that means they look natural...?

I love mine, it really sets you apart as not many guys have their noses pierced.
 

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I've got a tip....................... Don't do it!

The reasons will become clear enough.
 

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I have my lip pierced and girls love it and it makes them want to suck my c*ck. Im pretty sure the military doesnt allow facial piercings.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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logic1

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romangod said:
I've got a tip....................... Don't do it!

The reasons will become clear enough.
I 2nd the motion.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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not to nay-say the nay-sayers... and no offense at all, but i notice you're 40+ years old. of course a 40 year old wont be wearing one when they're that age... but i'm still young... and of course i will probably out-grow it when i'm that age.

you only live once, and you're only young once, right?

would you "older" folks get one if you were "young" in our generation?
 

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Michele said:
would you "older" folks get one if you were "young" in our generation?

Nope.............. For the same reason I didn't get a tattoo when many of my friends did. Almost all of them regret it to this day.
 

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you cant worry about regretting something 30 years from now. if you want one, get it and fvcking rock it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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WhitePimp said:
you cant worry about regretting something 30 years from now. if you want one, get it and fvcking rock it.
well said, homie. good way to point it out.
 

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You should get a prince Albert THAT would set you apart from 99% of the male population automatically. :D
 
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