"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

... I want to get my nose pierced.

Michele l'Arcangelo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
1,460
Reaction score
22
I'm 18, in college and planning on joining the military and get into healthcare.

I ALWAYS wanted to get a facial piercing. I'm actually debating whether or not I should get my nose pierced (ring not stud). It's just something I've always wanted to do.

But, it would totally be an irrational decision because:

1) high school is over
2) I'm 75% sure I'll be joining the military
3) I'm planning on working in a nursing home within 3 months.

Oh, and before you start ranting about big fluffy hats, feathery clothes and such... lay off the Mystery peacocking stuff... that's not why. I don't really know why... just like I said, I've just wanted to do it forever.

Anyone know much about piercings or have any unusual ones? Got any tips? Give me your honest feedback, without being a dick about it of course.

I'm thinking of the "subtle" one like the singer of Taking Back Sunday.

http://i.realone.com/assets/rn/img/0/9/6/5/16165690-16165693-slarge.jpg
http://img71.imageshack.us/img71/5797/banner1tx4.jpg
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

IPalindromeI

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 28, 2008
Messages
91
Reaction score
1
No harm in it really. It doesn't hurt nearly as bad as you think, and you can always take it out when you need to after it heals and replace it with a skin colored 'flat' that people won't be able to see (with exception of the military - I don't think even a 'flat' will be acceptable).

I guess it would also depend on your general appearance. It will work with some looks and not with others. I work with a guy who has two rings in one side, but he also pulls it off because the rest of him fits the theme.
 

WhitePimp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2004
Messages
802
Reaction score
19
Location
New jersey
I have a ring in my nose and one in my eyebrow. The nose one fvcking hurt but it looks awesome.

In the beginning it used to feel obtrusive, but now it feels really natural (I've had it almost 2 years). For some reason, nobody seems to mind it. It hasnt affected me getting jobs or anything and people have told me piercings normally bother the sh!t out of them but for some reason mine dont, so I guess that means they look natural...?

I love mine, it really sets you apart as not many guys have their noses pierced.
 

romangod

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2004
Messages
1,067
Reaction score
49
Location
Canada
I've got a tip....................... Don't do it!

The reasons will become clear enough.
 

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
I have my lip pierced and girls love it and it makes them want to suck my c*ck. Im pretty sure the military doesnt allow facial piercings.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

logic1

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
340
Reaction score
17
romangod said:
I've got a tip....................... Don't do it!

The reasons will become clear enough.
I 2nd the motion.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
1,460
Reaction score
22
not to nay-say the nay-sayers... and no offense at all, but i notice you're 40+ years old. of course a 40 year old wont be wearing one when they're that age... but i'm still young... and of course i will probably out-grow it when i'm that age.

you only live once, and you're only young once, right?

would you "older" folks get one if you were "young" in our generation?
 

romangod

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2004
Messages
1,067
Reaction score
49
Location
Canada
Michele said:
would you "older" folks get one if you were "young" in our generation?

Nope.............. For the same reason I didn't get a tattoo when many of my friends did. Almost all of them regret it to this day.
 

WhitePimp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2004
Messages
802
Reaction score
19
Location
New jersey
you cant worry about regretting something 30 years from now. if you want one, get it and fvcking rock it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Michele l'Arcangelo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
1,460
Reaction score
22
WhitePimp said:
you cant worry about regretting something 30 years from now. if you want one, get it and fvcking rock it.
well said, homie. good way to point it out.
 

DevanE

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2005
Messages
190
Reaction score
4
You should get a prince Albert THAT would set you apart from 99% of the male population automatically. :D
 
Top