"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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... I want to get my nose pierced.

Michele l'Arcangelo

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I'm 18, in college and planning on joining the military and get into healthcare.

I ALWAYS wanted to get a facial piercing. I'm actually debating whether or not I should get my nose pierced (ring not stud). It's just something I've always wanted to do.

But, it would totally be an irrational decision because:

1) high school is over
2) I'm 75% sure I'll be joining the military
3) I'm planning on working in a nursing home within 3 months.

Oh, and before you start ranting about big fluffy hats, feathery clothes and such... lay off the Mystery peacocking stuff... that's not why. I don't really know why... just like I said, I've just wanted to do it forever.

Anyone know much about piercings or have any unusual ones? Got any tips? Give me your honest feedback, without being a dick about it of course.

I'm thinking of the "subtle" one like the singer of Taking Back Sunday.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No harm in it really. It doesn't hurt nearly as bad as you think, and you can always take it out when you need to after it heals and replace it with a skin colored 'flat' that people won't be able to see (with exception of the military - I don't think even a 'flat' will be acceptable).

I guess it would also depend on your general appearance. It will work with some looks and not with others. I work with a guy who has two rings in one side, but he also pulls it off because the rest of him fits the theme.
 

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I have a ring in my nose and one in my eyebrow. The nose one fvcking hurt but it looks awesome.

In the beginning it used to feel obtrusive, but now it feels really natural (I've had it almost 2 years). For some reason, nobody seems to mind it. It hasnt affected me getting jobs or anything and people have told me piercings normally bother the sh!t out of them but for some reason mine dont, so I guess that means they look natural...?

I love mine, it really sets you apart as not many guys have their noses pierced.
 

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I've got a tip....................... Don't do it!

The reasons will become clear enough.
 

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I have my lip pierced and girls love it and it makes them want to suck my c*ck. Im pretty sure the military doesnt allow facial piercings.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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romangod said:
I've got a tip....................... Don't do it!

The reasons will become clear enough.
I 2nd the motion.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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not to nay-say the nay-sayers... and no offense at all, but i notice you're 40+ years old. of course a 40 year old wont be wearing one when they're that age... but i'm still young... and of course i will probably out-grow it when i'm that age.

you only live once, and you're only young once, right?

would you "older" folks get one if you were "young" in our generation?
 

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Michele said:
would you "older" folks get one if you were "young" in our generation?

Nope.............. For the same reason I didn't get a tattoo when many of my friends did. Almost all of them regret it to this day.
 

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you cant worry about regretting something 30 years from now. if you want one, get it and fvcking rock it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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WhitePimp said:
you cant worry about regretting something 30 years from now. if you want one, get it and fvcking rock it.
well said, homie. good way to point it out.
 

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You should get a prince Albert THAT would set you apart from 99% of the male population automatically. :D
 
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