marvinlfloresq
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 2, 2018
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- 46
Hummm, she told your friend you were distant. I think she needs constant adoration, she may have an "unsecure attachment".
Nothing wrong with begging and crying, most learn the hard way, i did it years years ago. You sound young.
She wants to be friends, could be she wants to start slow again. I read, and this happen to me, you need to start fresh with someone who decides to dump you if you wanna get back, because if you don't the "same" thing that cause the break up will happen again.
You need to know why it happen before you try to fix it. Ask her directly.
Finally, stop all this holding hands and disney channel stuff. Initiate sex.
Sex comes 1st, then the relationship. If she stops you from having or initiating sex, dont show discomfort and say I want to keep seing you romatically, and wait for her response. She says ok, good.
She says no, then let it be and move on. Tell her to contact you if she changes her mind. Then go meet someone else. She has feelings but you probably fumbled the football, its all good. Good luck.
Nothing wrong with begging and crying, most learn the hard way, i did it years years ago. You sound young.
She wants to be friends, could be she wants to start slow again. I read, and this happen to me, you need to start fresh with someone who decides to dump you if you wanna get back, because if you don't the "same" thing that cause the break up will happen again.
You need to know why it happen before you try to fix it. Ask her directly.
Finally, stop all this holding hands and disney channel stuff. Initiate sex.
Sex comes 1st, then the relationship. If she stops you from having or initiating sex, dont show discomfort and say I want to keep seing you romatically, and wait for her response. She says ok, good.
She says no, then let it be and move on. Tell her to contact you if she changes her mind. Then go meet someone else. She has feelings but you probably fumbled the football, its all good. Good luck.