"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just made a myspace, and hoping to meet some females.
Now I'm going to do the whole "spam" thing, because I wont actually read any of their profiles unless i know they might be choosing.
so im gonna spam to a bunch of girls...

What would you say is a good message?

PS. i know some of you will be tempted to call me an AFC, but u gotta be realistic, that on myspace, you HAVE to grab their attention with a message, to get anywhere, since 90% of human communication (bl + tone) are nonexistant online.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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awwwwwww tovarish, talk to the expert, how old is your target market?
 
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since you are 20, im gonna assume the girls u wanna message will all be 18-21

a great spam message would be

"heyy how are u? i just wanted to tell you that I think you have a very unique beauty to you (as a former model, i really appreciate that kinda thing), and id love to talk to you sometime, whats your screen name sweetie?"

you can change that slightly around, but that version has been the one that worked best for me. I was sick with the flu for 5 days 3 months ago, and i sent that message to pretty much every 19 and 20 year old i could, and I ended up with 200 or so screen names.......at one point, my inbox had over 200 messages, i actually thought it was kinda funny how so many girls fall for spam. And if a girl replies to that kinda message with her screen name, then thats a way for you to be able to tell that she IS choosing YOU, otherwise she woulda ignored your message
 
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"Hey, how you doing. You know I couldnt help but notice your pictures...who's that gorgeous guy in that pic title'd "I love my BOYFRIEND!!"?!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
 
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DJVladdy said:
lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
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that guy who said to mention the bf was trying to make fun of u

yes, definitely search for single girls!
 
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tru dat, savior

hey yo rebound, u confused about ur sexuality, bro? i personally dont go that way, but thats just me...
 
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thx Skip

any other suggestions?
 
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