"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i want some opinions:

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Just made a myspace, and hoping to meet some females.
Now I'm going to do the whole "spam" thing, because I wont actually read any of their profiles unless i know they might be choosing.
so im gonna spam to a bunch of girls...

What would you say is a good message?

PS. i know some of you will be tempted to call me an AFC, but u gotta be realistic, that on myspace, you HAVE to grab their attention with a message, to get anywhere, since 90% of human communication (bl + tone) are nonexistant online.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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awwwwwww tovarish, talk to the expert, how old is your target market?
 
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since you are 20, im gonna assume the girls u wanna message will all be 18-21

a great spam message would be

"heyy how are u? i just wanted to tell you that I think you have a very unique beauty to you (as a former model, i really appreciate that kinda thing), and id love to talk to you sometime, whats your screen name sweetie?"

you can change that slightly around, but that version has been the one that worked best for me. I was sick with the flu for 5 days 3 months ago, and i sent that message to pretty much every 19 and 20 year old i could, and I ended up with 200 or so screen names.......at one point, my inbox had over 200 messages, i actually thought it was kinda funny how so many girls fall for spam. And if a girl replies to that kinda message with her screen name, then thats a way for you to be able to tell that she IS choosing YOU, otherwise she woulda ignored your message
 
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"Hey, how you doing. You know I couldnt help but notice your pictures...who's that gorgeous guy in that pic title'd "I love my BOYFRIEND!!"?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
 
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DJVladdy said:
lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
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that guy who said to mention the bf was trying to make fun of u

yes, definitely search for single girls!
 
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tru dat, savior

hey yo rebound, u confused about ur sexuality, bro? i personally dont go that way, but thats just me...
 
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thx Skip

any other suggestions?
 
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