"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just made a myspace, and hoping to meet some females.
Now I'm going to do the whole "spam" thing, because I wont actually read any of their profiles unless i know they might be choosing.
so im gonna spam to a bunch of girls...

What would you say is a good message?

PS. i know some of you will be tempted to call me an AFC, but u gotta be realistic, that on myspace, you HAVE to grab their attention with a message, to get anywhere, since 90% of human communication (bl + tone) are nonexistant online.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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awwwwwww tovarish, talk to the expert, how old is your target market?
 
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since you are 20, im gonna assume the girls u wanna message will all be 18-21

a great spam message would be

"heyy how are u? i just wanted to tell you that I think you have a very unique beauty to you (as a former model, i really appreciate that kinda thing), and id love to talk to you sometime, whats your screen name sweetie?"

you can change that slightly around, but that version has been the one that worked best for me. I was sick with the flu for 5 days 3 months ago, and i sent that message to pretty much every 19 and 20 year old i could, and I ended up with 200 or so screen names.......at one point, my inbox had over 200 messages, i actually thought it was kinda funny how so many girls fall for spam. And if a girl replies to that kinda message with her screen name, then thats a way for you to be able to tell that she IS choosing YOU, otherwise she woulda ignored your message
 
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"Hey, how you doing. You know I couldnt help but notice your pictures...who's that gorgeous guy in that pic title'd "I love my BOYFRIEND!!"?!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
 
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DJVladdy said:
lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
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that guy who said to mention the bf was trying to make fun of u

yes, definitely search for single girls!
 
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tru dat, savior

hey yo rebound, u confused about ur sexuality, bro? i personally dont go that way, but thats just me...
 
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thx Skip

any other suggestions?
 
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