"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i want some opinions:

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Just made a myspace, and hoping to meet some females.
Now I'm going to do the whole "spam" thing, because I wont actually read any of their profiles unless i know they might be choosing.
so im gonna spam to a bunch of girls...

What would you say is a good message?

PS. i know some of you will be tempted to call me an AFC, but u gotta be realistic, that on myspace, you HAVE to grab their attention with a message, to get anywhere, since 90% of human communication (bl + tone) are nonexistant online.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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awwwwwww tovarish, talk to the expert, how old is your target market?
 

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since you are 20, im gonna assume the girls u wanna message will all be 18-21

a great spam message would be

"heyy how are u? i just wanted to tell you that I think you have a very unique beauty to you (as a former model, i really appreciate that kinda thing), and id love to talk to you sometime, whats your screen name sweetie?"

you can change that slightly around, but that version has been the one that worked best for me. I was sick with the flu for 5 days 3 months ago, and i sent that message to pretty much every 19 and 20 year old i could, and I ended up with 200 or so screen names.......at one point, my inbox had over 200 messages, i actually thought it was kinda funny how so many girls fall for spam. And if a girl replies to that kinda message with her screen name, then thats a way for you to be able to tell that she IS choosing YOU, otherwise she woulda ignored your message
 

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"Hey, how you doing. You know I couldnt help but notice your pictures...who's that gorgeous guy in that pic title'd "I love my BOYFRIEND!!"?!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs
 

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DJVladdy said:
lol good one

but im only searching for women who say single.
I got no time for all their "i have a boyfriend" bs

that guy who said to mention the bf was trying to make fun of u

yes, definitely search for single girls!
 

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tru dat, savior

hey yo rebound, u confused about ur sexuality, bro? i personally dont go that way, but thats just me...
 

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thx Skip

any other suggestions?
 
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